I always say I love visitors in the summer. What a joy to see relatives and guests bearing wine, beer and snacks along with their suitcases! Am I kidding myself? The older I get, the longer it takes for me to recover.

I’ve gotten smart about planning menus ahead. They usually include a barbecue if I have a lot of guests. Sometimes choosing one of my adult offspring to grill can backfire. It can be a dicey choice.