This a letter to my young self:
Jim, you have to be very respectful to your teachers, who are nuns and priests. Try to understand that there is a procedure in your church that will help you do things.
You will move from Trenton to the suburbs in Hamilton. Jim, you must always honor your parents. Your mother is strong and a college graduate, one of the first women to graduate from Rider College. Your dad has a serious drinking problem, which will affect you. Please stay close to him and help when you can.
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